Hey,
This is my first post on mumsnet after reading everyone's messages for a long time. I'm 35, my partner is 32 and we've been TTC for 2 years with 3 chemicals, and one missed miscarriage at 10 weeks in the summer.
Everything seems OK with me - although low AMF for my age. Tubes clear, bloods fine etc. I'm being referred to the recurrent miscarriage unit so hopefully they will have some answers.
On my partner's side, he had good concentration (340) and motility (52) but low morphology (2.5%). After trying for a year we made some drastic changes - cut caffeine back to 1-2 cups a day, alcohol to 1-2 drinks a week, changed underwear to baggy ones, cut long cycles etc. We also both went to acupuncture and a whole host of vitamins - proceieve Max, C0Q10, Zinc, and a few others. In the summer my partner saw Dr Ramsay and we did some more tests. Unfortunately, there was high dna frag (37%) which we think could have caused to miscarriage.
We are now looking at a private IVF round as the NHS will only fund one after 3 years. I'm very tentative because if the issue is the sperm, how do we know which has low dna frag? Thinking the only option would be IVF + ICSI + Zymot or TESA. I can't really find any places in London other than Care - has anyone had any experience with this one or with this issue?
Mentally I'm pretty broken, the fertility journey is a rollercoaster - trying to start calm and happy but when you tell people and all they say is 'you need to reduce stress' I want to scream! If they only knew everything we had to go through.
Anyway sending lots of love and kindness for anyone reading this now or in the future, I get you.