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Pcosfighter67 · 20/10/2022 10:31

Just thought I would give you guys some hope as I have been trawling forums for years looking for hope!
We have been TTC baby number 1 for 6 years I have PCOS which is our only problem but its so severe that my AMH is 140 so I don't have natural cycles and don't ovulate.
We tried Metformin (which I'm still on) alongside Clomid for three cycle, 50mg, 100mg, 150mg to which I had no response at all as my ovaries are far too busy!
Fast forward a little bit due to covid I had to have ovarian drilling and HSG after 4 months I had one natural period 4 days after the operation but nothing after and still hadn't conceived. At our follow up appointment 4 months later in February 2022 we were told that if I hadn't had regular cycles then the operation hadn't worked and to top it off I had no left tube, by the looks of it I was born with my left tube that hadn't really formed at all. My right tube was perfect.

We were told the only way for us to conceive was IVF. We were pretty devastated but luckily we're entitled to 1 full round on the NHS.
We sent of the referral etc and started our first cycle in June 2022. Unfortunately I didn't respond to the drugs properly and instead of getting dominant follicles I just recruited more. The cycle was cancelled. We were heartbroken but we could have another cycle due to it not classing as a full cycle.
We were supposed to start our cycle in August 2022 but we couldn't due to medication shortage ... more waiting!!!
We eventually started in September 2022 but it didn't go to plan and yet again I didn't respond properly apart from 1 dominant follicle on my left side. It was our last chance on the NHS if we cancelled or not we would still have to pay next time round so we, along with our medical team, decide we had nothing to lose by going in and trying that one follicle. So we did !
October 7th we had our retrieval and they managed to get the 1 egg out of the follicle that was beautifully matured. We all had our fingers crossed and our team was really routing for us !
The next morning I had the dreaded phone call that would tell us if the egg had fertilised... IT HAD 😁🥰
The embryologist decided as we only had the one it was not worth risking it til day 5 as its much better in the body so we transferred on day 3 and here's how it went !

Very mildly Crampy up until 6DP3DT

Really bad cramps at 6DP3DT felt like AF was coming.

Had fleeting AF type cramps everyday after, feeling tired, boobs not sore only sore nipples on contact.

9DP3DT - Feeling really tired and emotional had on off cramping. Went to the toilet in the evening and on wiping had some brown spotting/CM

I was distraught to say the least thinking the cycle was a bust. Nothing much more after.

10DP3DT - I wanted to take a test just to confirm I was out, I wasn't supposed to test until 13dp3dt to my surprise I got my BFP !! 🥳🥳🥳🥳
Still have cramping but the spotting has seemed to of died off 🤞🤞🤞 the clinic do not seem worried at all about the spotting as it is right on track to when you would expect it.

I'm really hoping this is it and our little baby stays with us. But I wanted to give you all some hope that bleeding isn't always a bad thing and even when the odds are stacked against you miracles do happen as I really didn't think we would stand a chance on getting the one little egg 🥰😘

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Thelotusflower · 20/10/2022 21:43

@Pcosfighter67 Thats lovely to read. Congratulations. Hope and pray that you continue with the good news. Thank you for sharing.

SantoPalo · 20/10/2022 21:51

Congratulations, I have my fingers crossed for you x

Minamina · 29/11/2022 21:52

Amazing news! Congratulations

caffelattetogo · 04/12/2022 10:04

Fingers crossed for you.

Pcosfighter67 · 29/08/2023 09:47

Just an update for you all !
I ended up bleeding right up until 16 weeks pregnant when it just stopped. At our 6 week viability scan the cause was found to be a subchorionic hemorrhage no harm to baby at all and we had a perfectly formed for gestation baby !
Fast forward and I'm happy to announce that we had our little girl at the end of June weighing 8lb 4oz 🥰 went in at 39 weeks for induction only to find out I was 7cm already without realising 🤣 I thought i had just tweaked my back a bit from nesting nothing major no painkillers needed no one could quite believe it as I sat there calmly eating my lunch 🤣.
Anyway we went to the birthing centre and it was magical and such a lovely experience up until the last 20 minute as had a full shoulder dyscotia and I bled out but the important thing is we are both safe and healthy with no lasting damage and our gorgeous little miracle is now a happy smiley 2 month old !

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Warrier87 · 29/08/2023 21:03

@Pcosfighter67

Firstly a heartily congratulations to you both! It means the world that you shared your journey with us all! It's so beautiful to hear the happy ending, and having that feeling that all you need is one! 💕

LucyLoopyLu · 31/08/2023 20:14

So lovely reading about your happy ending with your lovely baby. Congratulations 🎊

TheFanciestPants · 31/08/2023 21:06

@Pcosfighter67 lovely news. Massive congratulations. I have just had the exact opposite reason for a cycle failure (dominant follicle stopping the rest developing). So it's great to hear how a different protocol can lead to a much better result. ❤️

Rosequartzz · 01/09/2023 09:31

Congratulations ! Such an amazing read

Stonebridge · 02/09/2023 23:33

Aw congratulations

JadeAC · 30/09/2023 15:12

Just wanted to say I needed to read this. I had 3 day transfer and same as you I’ve had cramps and AF symptoms since then which have gotten a little worse. I’m 8dp3dt. It just feels like period is coming. It’s that same feeling in my stomachs I get every month so I’m abit down. I know it might be different for me and it could actually be my AF coming but it’s nice to read this and have some hope. So thank you for posting.

Holskey · 01/10/2023 00:27

Congratulations! That's a heart-warming story even for those who aren't looking for hope. Thanks for updating. Wishing you every happiness ❤

@JadeAC JadeAC I had cramping EXACTLY like AF was coming on both my successes. The cramping is not a sign of anything. I know it's hard to believe when you're feeling that AF feeling, but you can get it whether it's worked or not. Best of luck to you 🤞

RunningOnHope · 01/10/2023 09:39

Such a lovely story to read. Really glad it all worked out for you. I'm 5dp5dt and have been having cramps since day 1 or 2, and gradually getting sore boobs too, but I know it can just be progesterone. Cross your fingers for me!

Pcoswarrior23 · 01/10/2023 09:43

congrats girl so good to see positive story like this.

bloss0mx · 01/10/2023 23:15

Thanks for taking the time to share your amazing story 💕

JadeAC · 07/10/2023 15:30

Just wanted to update that I am 4+3 pregnant! With all those cramps that I still get abit now. I know it’s early days so I’m not going to count my chickens yet but i just wanted to add that you really can’t symptom spot as I was CONVINCED my AF was coming.

Holskey · 07/10/2023 23:27

That's amazing news @JadeAC! Congratulations 🥳 Thanks for updating. Wishing you all the best for a healthy happy pregnancy 😊

MoonlightDreamer · 07/10/2023 23:47

@Pcosfighter67 thankyou for that. I also have pcos and like you metfomin and clomid failed to assist me in achieving a pregnancy. I'm about to start ivf next week. I'm almost 38 tho so incredibly nervous about age

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