@VenusStarr the scan wasn't at my clinic I haven't told her about the immune stuff or this stuff. I feel like she already thought my situation was dire and now it's a lot worse. I have a scan next week I'm hoping if my lining is a bit thicker maybe they will see the fibroid position better, I'm hoping it was wrong and that they are in the muscle. I still only had the one in the muscle at the scan I had in February.
@Yuliaaa oh that's interesting about your lining, I was so sure my lining issues had been overcome but it was just the hypothyroidism it seems :( when I was deciding who to see for my thyroid I considered this place which specializes in endocrinology in fertility stuff, it might be worth you speaking with them? www.imperialreproductiveendocrinology.com
@Parisinthesummer anywhere between 80-100% lactobacillus should be fine. I would recommend in your next transfer cycle that you use a vaginal probiotic every day and do it until the first scan.
@StillTrying10000 I used to dose tacrolimus in the past and it does need regular blood tests, hopefully they will get you on the right dose quickly.
I spoke to the immune person yesterday, he said the complete Hla Dqalpha match is so rare that he has a very small number of people who have been found to have it, and he tests for it! He said he needs to do a literature search to put the right treatment plan together but thinks it would be: LIT with a mixture of donor and my husband's blood, that would need to be done 2-3 weeks before a transfer and will last for 4-6 months, if I get a positive test then it will need to be repeated, also G-CSF and likely steroids and intralipids. I obviously can't do any of it until I get the ok that my thyroid is stable, find out what's happening with these fibroids and get clarity on my lining. The hill to climb just keeps getting bigger and bigger.
I had a chat with a colleague today, turns out a few colleagues have had babies without me realising, they said I'll go get there baby to say hello, I almost started crying and said "no I can't deal with babies", that should be enough of a hint that I'm going through stuff. This stuff just comes up all the time.