This weekend I had my third miscarriage in a row after our first round of IVF. In March 2020 I had a chemical miscarriage, then July 2020 I had a MMC at 9 weeks and after a year of being unable to get pregnant we’ve just had our third miscarriage at 9 weeks.
In the last two miscarriages I’ve seen the baby on the screen with a heartbeat at week 8. I’ve then started bleeding with both of them at week 9. When I’ve gone to the hospital at this point they’ve told me there is no baby on the scan and I’ve passed the baby already. The first time I had no idea what was happening and then had a very traumatic experience with the baby landing in the toilet 4 days later (sorry for the graphic detail). This time I insisted that the baby was still inside me and I was right as it passed today.
What I can’t understand is why they can’t see the baby on the screen in the scan? She said if there is no fluid in the sac then they would be unable to see it. Does fluid normally leave the sac when miscarrying? Any help/advice would be much appreciated. We feel absolutely broken and we’re just desperate to work out what is going wrong. The infertility/miscarriages have just taken over our lives and I feel like I have lost my personality.