Im 32 and my husband is 31. Been TTC since March 2020. Got to 7 weeks in August 2020 before miscarrying.
In November 2020 I had a chemical. (Period came on day 32 after seeing positive a few days before)
In April 2021 I had another chemical and the cycle was 31 days after seeing a positive a few days before. However in May I thought I had another positive but I came on that day which makes me think the April one was just an indent line too. I didn’t use expensive tests in that one as I was saving them for after my period was late.
This could mean I’ve not seen a positive since November 2020 but the NHS have us down as April being our last pregnancy. They won’t offer us IVF because they say I can get pregnant.
I then had my HyCoSy in June and was told I have polycystic ovaries (20+ on each side). I’m pretty sure I ovulate regularly. Ever since HyCoSy I’ve had very regular cycles at 28 days.
Since TTC they’ve been between 31-38 days so I’ve been thinking something has been happening and not sticking every month. Im now worried that that’s it and as my cycles are back to 28 days I won’t ever see a positive again as it’s not even pretending to stick anymore.
I cannot take another negative. Today was day 14 but I don’t want to try anymore because I can’t deal with seeing another negative and being in the two week wait just thinking every twinge must mean I’m pregnant.
Does anyone else have polycystic ovaries but regular cycles and likely not the syndrome? The consultant said I don’t have the syndrome which means we cant be given anything and all we can do is keep trying. It just feels hopeless because I cant keep trying but there is nothing anyone can do. There is nothing on the internet about having polycystic ovaries without the syndrome. Has anyone been successful after a similar situation?