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12 years...and I think I've got a BFP...

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Sunshinealligator · 03/09/2021 23:58

I don't know how, DH has recently gone off sex. I think in our minds its become an impossibility that it would ever happen.

Yesterday I underwent an investigation under anaesthesia. They asked if I was pregnant. I laughed and said no way, I tried and tried for years, but I've given up any hope of any more children. I have one who's almost 14 but since having her I just couldn't get pregnant.

Last night I said to DH I was questioning it. I said it was really silly and this evening I went and bought a pregnancy test. Strange because I'm not feeling unwell or anything.
I'm a few days late, but I have pcos, so I'm often quite late anyway.

Here it is! Still pretty light, but I'm so happy. I'm used to sitting on the toilet crying and feeling stupid that its again negative and I hoped it wasn't.

12 years...and I think I've got a BFP...
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try9ng · 04/09/2021 00:50

Awh congratulations that's amazing news x

loulou2021 · 04/09/2021 08:56

Huge congratulations!

Faithful789 · 04/09/2021 09:11

That’s amazing... Congratulations!!!

Sunshinealligator · 04/09/2021 12:45

Thanks everyone. I'm so excited!

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EmJay19 · 04/09/2021 21:38

Such a great story x Congrats x

Lotusflower1990000 · 04/09/2021 21:54

Amazing news!!! Congratulations xxx

Sunshinealligator · 05/09/2021 22:51

Thanks again!!
I've had 3 tests now, and its starting to sink in!
After all this time!!

I've just started with a new company, and I was explaining to my bosses boss that I had my first child 13 years ago, and I wanted a second for so long, but it never happened. I tried to shrug it off, sort of said, and I don't think I could be doing with the baby years now (I've got so good at deflecting the hurt and sadness I've felt that this wasn't happening for us)
I've seen most of my friends say they're not ready for kids, get ready, have their first, second and some even a third whilst I've been so sad it hasn't been happening for us.

This is just so exciting.

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IsabelHerna · 08/09/2021 09:17

Aw! Congratulations! These are amazing news!

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