So I’m 41. I have two lovely children already. I know I’m incredibly lucky. We tried for a third but two years later it hasn’t happened. I’ve been through many tests and tried clomid and IUI. Nothing wrong found. Just hasn’t happened. My husband has accepted it and to be honest I think it was always more me who wanted a third. I thought I was over it but I keep thinking about it and haven’t yet managed to deal with all the baby stuff. Should I talk to my husband about trying again or try and move on? The age gap would be 6 years now. Plus my age…..in a way I wish there was a problem then at least I’d have closure as to why it never happened.