Hi
I hope this is ok for me to put here.
I’m several years past fertility treatment and still struggling a bit with the fallout of it.
One of the things I’m finding hard is that although DH was more present for the first cycle, the second cycle I did more or less alone. I went to all the egg checking appointments (which is fair enough because he was working and I was back and forth every day for about a week) but I also went to embryo transfer on my own and the follow up appointment where they do the pregnancy test (negative, but I already knew that) and talk about what might have ‘gone wrong.’
I feel let down and still anxious about it even though it was several years ago now.
I suppose I’m asking - even though it doesn’t matter now - how supportive are your partners? Is it normal for partners to only go to the viral egg retrieval appointment?
Sorry if this is inappropriate for here. I’m still struggling with all this.