I am 34 (35 in a few months' time) with a 35 yo husband. Our nutshell history is we started TTC in December 2019 and were successful by ourselves in three months, but unfortunately had a 9w loss. After that, nothing. I had a hysteroscopy/HSG during this time which showed no concerns on those counts.
Moved to IVF at a Care location in the Midlands in March of this year. I have now done two cycles with them - the first yielded 14 eggs, 8 fert, 2 embryos, one of which was a failed fresh transfer and the other tested aneuploid. Second cycle yielded 21 eggs, 15 fert. I am waiting on the Day 5 results, but the reason I am writing now is because - just like our first cycle - all of the embryos are suffering from fragmentation, and much worse fragmentation grades than the first cycle (the two that made it to blast were Grade 2 frag, this time there aren't any at Grade 2 - all worse!), so again, I am expecting very, very few blasts which will likely be of poor quality, perhaps even none.
My protocol was changed between the first and second cycle, and I was also diagnosed with PCOS (currently on metformin). Husband has had SA and some other tests on him, and nothing seems to be of concern on his side.
We were on a two cycle package with Care so I'm now done with being tied in financially, and depending if there is anything for transfer, I am wanting to move on to a different clinic. I feel like Care gets results for some people, but they are not very good at individualising patient treatment which I feel is what I need. I feel like I was the driving force to try a protocol change between first/second cycle, and practically had to guide them to conduct some more bloodwork on me to confirm PCOS. The only thing they have really done to help is prescribe me metformin, but even then, they have given me this without actually checking to see if I am insulin resistant so... Anyway, I can clearly produce eggs, and my husband can fertilise them, but the quality of the embryos is not good.
I know that the best clinics in terms of success rates seem to be in London, but this would be a real PITA for me as I would need to completely decamp down there for the period of stims etc. I am not completely ruling it out, but I am also hoping to avoid if I can.
Clinics I am currently considering are P4 Fertility (i.e. the Priory in Birmingham) and Herts and Essex Fertility Centre (down London way, but not central, so a bit easier to manage even though I would still need to decamp).
Can anyone offer comment on P4/Herts & Essex or provide strong testimony for any other clinics? I do not want to use Care or Create locations.