Hi,
Bit of background: been with DH 8 years, been TTC for 6. DH has DD from previous relationship so we're not eligible for any NHS IVF funding.
Had various tests over the years, all came back completely normal for both of us - so officially diagnosed as "unexplained infertility".
I'd been told not to accept this so pushed for more tests but my GP had a very Frank conversation with me that said we could spend the next year undergoing more tests and anything of significance would have certainly been picked up already. Even if they find something small, all routes would ultimately lead to IVF and given we have to self fund, we might be better to just start now.
Given what her said and the fact we're now approaching mid 30s - I felt like 6 years was plenty of time to let nature do its thing so have started the process for self funded IVF. Had our tests last week but now need to wait 20 days until we get our results 😩 however, I had a 3d antral follicle scan (which I've never had before) and had 5 follicles one side and 7 the other. The nurse said it was a bit low but it's quality rather than quantity - but her demeanour came across like this really wasn't great and now I've got 20 days to find out my AMH Levels!
Googled the count and it actually seems to be somewhat normal, but on the lower end of normal. Just wondered if anyone has had successful treatment with 12 or less follicles?
I know everyone is different and you can't compare; especially without knowing AMH levels but I just feel a bit in limbo after what felt like a bit of a blow and then a long wait for official results & consultation.