Did IVF and discovered about 10 days ago I was pregnant with our second baby, only to have a chemical pregnancy a few days later. Now I feel so low and sad but more than anything I feel guilty that I failed the baby as I didn't look after myself enough. I let some family stress get on top of me, probably didn't drink enough water and was overdoing it juggling our young first child. Now I can't help feel so much regret and guilt and kick myself wishing I had looked after the baby more and also not wasted so much money. We are planning to try again but I worry I have blown my chance to have a second baby and I can't help feel I didn't and don't deserve the opportunity to be pregnant again. I can't shake the guilt.