Welcome @nightslugs and sorry to hear of your struggles and having to come to terms with not having any more. It must be hard when you would be willing to do more rounds but your OH doesn't want to.
I think i am the one that is more keen to do it all again than my husband, he has said we will do it and he would love another but he doesn't want to spend crazy money and years doing it when we have our DD to enjoy which is fair enough although i know i will find it hard to stop and accept it if it doesn't work.
We are still looking in to the different packages, i didn't realise how many there are and the costs, i rather naively thought we would just choose one at the clinic we used before, we were at Oxford and they were brilliant so we were keen to go there but my husband phoned to ask for prices and it wasn't quite as straight forward, online one of the options said starting from £9k but in actual fact at Oxford it was over £20k, i didn't realise how the cost varied between some clinics so we are now looking at all clinics within reasonable distance, looking at their prices, what they offer, success rates etc... and go from there, its a headache.
My husband said we might just have to go with a 2 cycle one, which is great and doing any is worth it but i am worried 2 just won't be enough, it took 3 the first time and we have no frosties, i was hoping we could do at least 3 to give us the best chance but its looking unlikely.
Makes me realise even more how lucky we were first time to get funding on the NHS, the money side of things is just so horrible, i hate how much it all costs just to even try to have a baby when for others it just comes to easily, it's so cruel.
I think that is partly why i am braver and speak up more now, when we were going through IVF for our DD we only told close family, no one else knew and i didn't want to talk about it but since having her i have felt braver to speak about it and share how hard it all is, i think people need to know it isn't easy for everyone, so if someone asks if i will have more i am honest.
I also hate it when people say how lucky i am to have one at all, i am incredibly lucky and grateful to have my DD i know that, but it doesnt always feel that way when you're being baby bombed left, right and centre from people planning perfect age gaps or suprise pregnancies, when they smile and say oh yes but your lucky you have one at all, i think having to do IVF isnt what i would call lucky.
I have told one of my collegues about being careful when speaking of siblings to the children, i work in a nursery and a collegue did something similar to what happened to you @Donimo, the conversation of babies was brought up by one of the children and my collegue said to her would you like a brother or sister, you should ask mummy for one when she comes! I cringed and said i'm sorry but can you please not do that, you dont know their situation so dont assume they want or can have more children so sending their child home to 'ask' for a sibling is unfair.
I understand that if you've not been through it you can't even begin to imagine the struggle but i think people should at least be a little mindful that things aren't easy for everyone.
I've actually since having my DD and returning to work found out that lots of the children i look after are IVF babies, and this may sound strange but it makes me smile when i see them as i know what it took for them to be here.
Gosh aren't i just a ray of sunshine tonight 
sorry about that i didnt realise how much i was ranting.
to all you lovely ladies, i had forgotten how nice it is to chat with people who understand.
@donimo sorry to hear you have to wait a month for your counselling session. I hope your appointment next week about donor eggs helps give you more information about your options.
Xxx