I am 35, I had a fresh cycle in November, I ended up with 9 blastocytes, because of a medication reaction (a rash) the worst graded embryo was transferred, it was unsuccessful.
I had a FET cycle recently, this time it was a 1,1 fully hatched 10/10 embryoscope score embryo, I thought it must be very vigorous as it hatched as soon as it was thawed. But again it was unsuccessful.
To move forward I decided to go with PGT-A testing of the 7 remaining embryos, I’m also considering an ERA and the scratch but can’t discuss them until I’m reviewed by my specialist.
Today my embryos were biopsied, the embryologist called and told me the top graded embryo didn’t survive the thaw, I’m a bit gutted about this, it was the only embryo that was hatching, and again was a 1,1 10/10. I was told the risk of embryos not surviving the thaw was less than 5% and that the grading relates to how well an embryo would thaw, I would have thought this embryo would be very unlikely to not survive the thaw. Could it be that something went wrong in the lab? Or is it just bad luck and it would have happened on transfer day if I hadn’t tested them? I guess I’m more gutted because this was one of the two best embryos, it may have been the one they transplanted in the fresh cycle had a decision not been made to transfer the worst as I had a rash on my arms.
Of the remaining 6, 5 have been biopsied and 1 hasn’t been biopsied today, it’s 50:50 whether it will be able to be biopsied tomorrow, if it can’t then it won’t be frozen. So I’m potentially going from 7 to 5, I know 5 still seem like a lot but it could reduce further when I get the results of the PGT-A and it seems there is an implantation issue to overcome as well.
I’m still feeling that this was a sensible decision to save the future heart ache of more unsuccessful cycles which would have never have worked and hopefully it will result in a pregnancy sooner, I guess I never expected to lost the best embryo.