I'm childless having spent a decade of my life TTC. and having many MC. We stopped TTC about 18 months ago, it was hard but I feel like I have my sanity back and have come to terms with being childless.
While going through it I was a member of a wonderful thread on here called the Uber Barrens. It was so helpful to me to find women who thought like I did.
One of the posters (not me!) had gone on to really make a difference in impacting the conversation of infertility in society. I was just going through some old internet stuff and came across this link to an article she did a couple of years ago. I thought it might be a helpful and reassuring read for women in a similar situation, I've not been on the infertility boards for a while now as I've put TTC behind me, but I really hope there's a similar thread to the Uber Barrens for those of of you that had to get to the painful point of realising that no amount of fertility treatment will result in you carrying a baby, it really was a life saver for me.
Infertility and the tyranny of positivity medium.com/@katylindemann/infertility-and-the-tyranny-of-positivity-79b7a96597cb