Hello hope all you ladies are well.
Frankly I’m dreading Christmas. I’m currently CD30, after having ovarian drilling in October. feeling very nauseous but tested on Friday (day 26) and BFN. Not sure if I should do another or not before Christmas- I can’t really track how long my cycle “should” be or if the drilling worked.
Which leads me onto...
Assuming we’re still negative we are preparing for letrozole in the new year, and the monitoring appointments that go with it. Luckily we are a 12 minute walk from the fertility clinic so very close for appointments! Haven’t had any appointments through yet.
My in laws want to see us over Christmas but they’ve recently been hiding the truth about who they’ve been seeing and breaching covid rules. I’m very uncomfortable about that especially as there is a chance we will have a few clinic appointments in January and I don’t want them postponed if we catch covid, and I don’t want to potentially infect other women who are using the clinic and ruin their chances of a BFP either. To be honest it makes me very angry that they are being so selfish and prioritising seeing their mates over family. BIL’s girlfriend is also uncomfortable with them, said they won’t be going over Xmas and it’s really upset them to the point they’ve said they’ll drive over here and see everyone anyway then. I hate they are forcing it.
Any tips on how to deal with this without upsetting the in-laws? I was going to suggest we go for a distanced walk instead, but if they ask why all of a sudden we have changed our tune I won’t be able to bite my tongue and chaos could follow....
I’m hormonal (probably pre menstrual) and angry so probably not the right time to deal but this means so much to us and I really don’t want to risk covid affecting clinic appointments (though we don’t actually have any appointments booked in yet they just said early new year)