Hi, we have been undergoing IVF, and after all the drugs which led to a number of excruciating sleepless nights, we finally have 5 embryos and have been looking forward to the transfer next month.
In addition to IVF, we chose to add on PGT-M, which is an additional genetic screening of the embryos, as my husband has a heart condition which we would like to rule out if possible.
With a month to go, the clinic called me yesterday, and told me that because a member of staff had been furloughed, an email had been missed back in March and they had not started 'enrolment of the test process'. This is where they tailor the genetic test to your particular scenario, and can take a long time.
They said that as a result of this, we would now need to wait another 3 months for the transfer. I've been building mentally towards this and have continued working from home, which I'm not sure will be allowed to continue much longer. Everything has been working towards this transfer date, and I just don't think I can cope with this extra delay. Our treatment was already delayed 2 months due to lockdown, and this just feels like an extra twist of the knife which is in no way our fault!
I just don't know what to do. The clinic has said we can proceed without the genetic testing, but I know my husband would be devastated. But I've been so up and down and I just don't know how I'll cope with 3 more months of uncertainty. There could be another delay or mistake down the line, or we could go into another lockdown. Whatever we decide, one of us will be hurt. 