Hi and welcome 😊
I also have PCOS and am trying to conceive my first child. You will need to be referred to a specialist if you need clomifene. A doctor won’t prescribe that.
My GP was a total arse to be brutally honest. Despite me explaining that I had PCOS and extremely long and irregular cycles (80+ days) which I believed were annovulatory due to me doing bbt and ovulation sticks, the doctor still refused to refer me until I’d been ttc for over a year.
I went to him first at six months and then again at nine months ttc to explain that I didn’t really have periods and he kept telling me that it was because I was too stressed and I needed to calm down. He treated me like a hysterical woman every time which I found patronising and humiliating as my cycles have been this irregular for 16 years and I have not been using any hormonal contraception which could have affected them. He refused to listen to anything I had to say.
Eventually after 13 months I went back and said I wasn’t leaving his office until he referred me. He did. I think he only refered me because I bought DH who is built like a brick house and looks terrifying (he’s actually the biggest softie)😂.
I then saw a fertility specialist at the hospital who was furious as I was supposed to have had a whole host of tests done (blood tests, HSG, external and internal scans) before I had my first appointment with her. According to her, the GP should have arranged everything before the referral so that by the time I met with the specialist, I’d had the tests and she could look at the results to arrange my treatment plan. So my first appointment was a total waste of time as all she could do was book the tests. She couldn’t offer me any treatment.
Now at 20 months ttc, Ive finally had my results Which confirm I don’t ovulate. I have had a second appointment and have finally been given metformin and clomifene and am two weeks into treatment so fingers crossed! I have to have a day 21 blood test after my first period on metformin and clomifene to check that it has caused ovulation. If not they have to up the dosage. I have to have a general checkup after six months if I haven’t become pregnant.
My advice is don’t let your GP fob you off if you know something is wrong already. If I’m doubt, try and see another GP. Also, make sure that if they refer you to a fertility specialist, they have arranged for the general scans and blood tests to be done first otherwise this can delay your treatment. Mine was delayed for six months as they had to arrange the tests, have the tests done, wait for the results and then arrange an appointment to discuss treatment.
I Know my experience is not the same as everyone’s and I hope that yours is nothing like mine but I just wanted to share my experience so that you have an idea of what to do if you don’t get the support you need!
Good luck and I hope it all happens quickly for you! 😊❤️