Bleeding - support needed

[Shamoo]

Hello. I had a FET on the 13th, positive test just over a week ago. 5weeks 1 day today according to the online calculator. Just been to the toilet and had some pink blood - not lots, not clot, but had to wipe away.

Absolutely petrified, bled at 7 week a last tome and when for scan to be told it was a missed miscarriage - so I’m petrified it’s happened again.

Am alone at the moment and looking for some advice or support - I can’t see the doctor at the clinic until Monday now, so just have to wait.

So pleased for you @Shamoo wishing you a healthy an happy pregnancy going forward xxx

I started bleeding again this morning which is the day of my scan. Unfortunately, I’ve lost the baby. They think it may even be eptopic. Absolutely devastated. 2nd miscarriage following ivf. We have one more embryo left which we will try for when the times right but after that we have no further options as we can’t afford it. Luckily we have a lovely little boy but the need for a sibling is so wished for 😪😪😪

@Mctm123 oh I'm so sorry to hear that. I can't imagine how you're feeling and I can't ever think of what to say to make you feel better because it isn't that easy. I really do wish you all the luck in the world on your next embryo, and you've got your little boy you can make have an amazing Christmas.

I have my second scan tomorrow, should be 5+6 but I'm so scared. I've been bleeding for 12 days now

Thank you @summershine2204 I’m feeling a lot better now I’m back at home, resting on the couch. It’s just a worry not knowing where the embryo is whether it’s eptopic or I’ve passed it. I need closure quickly so I’m praying I’ve passed it already to save having any surgery. My little boy is my whole world and I already knew how special he was but this has made me appreciate him even more.

Good luck for tomorrow. I hope it goes well, try not to worry (easier said than done I know!) xxx

@Mctm123 as awful as it is if I'm losing it I just wish it would happen. This has been the longest 12 days of my life and we have no control or no say, it's just waiting and over analysing EVERY. LITTLE. THING. I haven't seen any clots so that's the only thing keeping me going.

I do hope you're body has dealt with it though, I can't imagine having to go back for intervention and have to deal with it all again.

@summershine2204 I know what you mean. All we do is wait an overthink its bloody mental torture an as you say if it’s not meant to be, as horrible as it is, at least you would know then and can move on!

Let us know how you get on, I’ll be thinking of you and hope all is well (which I’m sure it will be) xxx

@Mctm123 so the sac has increased in size from 4.3mm (last Friday) to 13.3mm today however there is no yolk so it's still just a sac. I'm back there next Monday - the fact it's growing is a good sign however the midwives are trying to tell me I'm over 8 weeks because of my LMO however I didn't ovulate until 16/11/2019 so I know that I'm less than 6 weeks.

I hope you're doing ok

@summershine2204 oh well that’s positive news then! Good that they are keeping an eye on you an your back there Monday. Sounds like it’s going in the right direction. Pleased for you xxx

I’m doing ok thanks, I’ve woke up today feeling a lot stronger and just determined to enjoy xmas and start again as soon as. Last time we waited and gave ourselves a break. This time I just want to get going. But I’m doing good thank you. Have a lovely wkd xxx