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Mother’s Day :(

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PurpleDaisies · 30/03/2019 18:28

Anyone else dreading tomorrow?

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Pandasarecute · 31/03/2019 16:12

ThanksThanksThanks for you all. This is where I was for many Mother's days thanks to failed IVF's and miscarriages. I hope that you all get through the day

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NewYoiker · 31/03/2019 17:13

It's just such a shit day isn't it?

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EnidButton · 31/03/2019 18:35

Flowers to everyone. Two pregnancy announcements with close family members today. I'm 12 years in and 5 failed ivfs but it still hurts. It was wall to wall baby talk, showing each other baby clothes, scan photos passed around, stretch mark discussions, section scars shown, saying what sex/gender they'd prefer...baby baby baby... I was the only person in the room who wasn't pregnant or a mother. Hours of it because I was waiting on a lift. I feel utterly battered and I'm so so tired of it.

And you can't say anything because there's no way to make it sound reasonable because it isn't but I still feel shit.

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EnidButton · 31/03/2019 18:36

Sparky that's awful I'm so sorry. x

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EnidButton · 31/03/2019 18:39

And coy Flowers and ohbig Sad It's utterly utterly shit and unfair.

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Pinktruffle · 31/03/2019 18:40

@sparkythecat I'm so sorry. I'll be thinking of you today xx

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kikisparks · 31/03/2019 19:40

@sparkythecat so sorry to hear this Flowers

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Brambles7 · 31/03/2019 20:45

Flowers for everyone for today.
Such a difficult day to make it through. So sorry we have to go through this. Thinking of you all.

4 years TTC here and not a sniff of a BFP. Just had our first IVF round.

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EnidButton · 31/03/2019 23:24

I hope tomorrow is kinder to everyone. Flowers

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Superfragile · 01/04/2019 08:52

@EnidButton your post was absolutely heartbreaking to read. I am so sorry 💐

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uberbarrensclub · 01/04/2019 11:27

So very very much love to you all. It's fucking shit.

ThanksThanksThanks

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FingersXssd83 · 21/04/2019 16:07

Anyone else feel rubbish today? All family holiday get togethers are a complete head mess for me whilst struggling with infertility. Christmas, Mother's Day and now Easter. How is everyone trying to make the best of the situation? I just want to spend the four days in bed :/

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PurpleDaisies · 24/04/2019 19:53

Sorry for totally abandoning the thread. Hope everyone is coping.

It’s been a rotten day today. My endometriosis is playing up so I’m all bloated. Unfortunately my class thought u was pregnant and kids have been asking me all day. That’s meant nudges and winks from other staff about having to find maternity cover for me. To make everything worse I have the mist horrendous period pain.

Sorry for the pity party. Just totally fed up of all this. :(

How’s everyone doing?

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