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Bfn and baby bombed, happy fucking new year

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Catren · 31/12/2018 22:48

I'm so angry. And sad. And sorry for myself. Ttc #2 for almost 3 years, countless cps, one ivf cycle, 2 failed transfers. Losing hope.

I'm in the second of two 'break' months, while i had immune testing done, which were borderline so still no reason why the embryos won't stick.

10dpo this morning, new year's day, and got my (obviously expected) bfn. Then moments later dh tells me his mates wife is pregnant with their second. We were struggling when they announced their first, and we'll likely still be struggling when they deliver their second. I'm so fucking over this grief. And wish I could have had a few more hours of 2019 before being (second) baby bombed.

This is all so shit. Thanks for listening x

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Rw2019 · 03/02/2019 22:26

Amazing news!!! Fingers crossed everything goes well 😍

Bloo22 · 03/02/2019 22:29

Fingers crossed for you!!

CatRen · 04/02/2019 02:27

Thanks so much. I really wouldn't wish infertility on anyone!

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CatRen · 05/02/2019 02:10

Blood results are in, it's good news! Beta is 385 which is good for 11fp5dt apparently so I'm in a bit of shock. Thanks for all your support ladies x

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