We were lucky enough to get a BFP on our first cycle, but then had a MMC at 9 weeks. I just had a second cycle, but that resulted in a BFN.
We just went to see our consultant and I'm not sure of the way forward now (we still have some frosties to transfer). Due to my 'young'(!) age - 36 - and that the two embryos transferred and failed were top quality, he wants to run some tests to see if there is anything else preventing it working.
These tests are for Natural Killer cells. He was very upfront and said that there have been no large scale studies on it but his clinic and one other clinic in London believe the science behind it and so if there are no other factors then they will investigate this. These tests cost £1200 as they send the blood to Chicago.
They also want to run a test for thrombophilia. As there is a family history of strokes, it wouldn't surprise me if I have a predisposition to thrombosis.
Most of the time I'm very good and don't google, just trust what the doctor says. However, I'm on the fence about this one - as there have been no large scale studies into NK cells, and the experts themselves all disagree about the theory behind it. Part of me just thinks that we should go for another FET and hope third time lucky, the other part of me knows that I wouldn't forgive myself if we went for another FET and it was either BFN or another miscarriage.
I'm at a loss as to what to do. We've had to self-fund the entire thing, and I'm aware that there are some clinics out there who just trade on hope. In the past our doctor has told us not to bother with add-ons that he doesn't think are worth it, so I've never felt like he's been just trying to make money off us.