Hi,
I'm 41 and just done my first cycle. I've never been pregnant before. I've got a duff left ovary due to having had a large dermoid cyst on it (which I didn't know about). Had it removed last year, but as a result that ovary is tiny weeny with not much going on in it.
Did a short antagonist protocol - stimmed for about 16 days which was fine. No side effects whatsoever. Had EC on Monday (which was also fine), and miraculously got 11 eggs.
On the day, they decided to do ICSI as DP's sperm has slightly crap morphology, but otherwise in pretty good nick.
Following day we discovered that of the 11, 1 egg was abnormal, but the others were fine - and 7 fertilised normally through ICSI. Clinic immediately booked us in for a 5 day transfer.
At Day 3, they were all still motoring along nicely - all at high quality, so far so good!
This morning (Day 4) they called to confirm the transfer tomorrow as the little guys are all still doing their thing, BUT I mentioned that I had a cough and so my Consultant (who I trust implicitly) wants to cancel and do a freeze-all.
Judging by the progress of the embryos today, he says that 2 are pulling ahead and forming early blasts - hopefully by tomorrow we'll have 2 for freezing, and possibly another 2 by Sunday. He's under-estimated the number of things every time (which I appreciate) so it may be that we end up with more to freeze, but if we have 4 I'd be delighted.
The waiting game for the next 2 days will be really hard - but if he thinks it's better not to risk wasting an embryo in a transfer with me being ill then I'm good with that.
Fingers crossed for you @Cariad82