Hi,
This is the first time I've posted on something like this... and I'm hoping that someone's words of wisdom might be able to stop my brain working overtime and going into throws of anxiety about this.
I was married to my Ex, together for 7 years and during this time we had 5 miscarriages.... we never managed to have children and sadly all the losses ended up breaking us up.
3 were "missed" M/C's and the most recent 2 were Blighted Ovums (BO). First BO was spotted at the 12 week scan, the second spotted at the EPAU at week 6.
I have serious concerns that this is going to happen again, especially after having 5 consecutive M/C's?
I have had a ridiculous number of test and there has never been found a "cause", so they've labelled it "recurrent, unexplained miscarriage". I have been found to have very low Vitamin D levels, for which I am now on daily medication (tablet form) for, but there's not a lot of evidence to suggest that this could have been a major factor.
Has anyone ever heard of this happening again with a new partner? Are there any more tests I can try.... I am thinking about considering IVF in the long-run, but I'm not sure that's going to work either. A friend of mine has suggested that a new partner may well not have the same effect, but I don't want to get my hopes up too much!
I want this pregnancy to work, but I'm worrying myself sick.
Any advice, guidance or helpful words are very welcome!
Thank you