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Anyone else get exceptionally frustrated?

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CraftyGirly90 · 08/05/2018 21:18

So me and my OH have been TTC for a long while now with no joy. We've been the dr and as far as they can tell the problem is with him (which we sort of knew anyway, just wanted to be certain). We've been told the possibility of it happening naturally are extremely slim but could be possible. Now we're both trying to lose weight to see if that helps, neither of us drink very often and have never smoked. The thing is everytime I get my 'special visit' my heart sinks and I get more and more sure it won't happen. Then my friends have babies and I'm happy for them but also feel a little bitter and wonder why I'm going to get my turn. Anyone else feel like this or am I being overly sensitive?

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Jamahi · 09/05/2018 15:50

@CraftyGirly90 sounds like you're going through a really tough time. I feel exactly the same so I know how it feels. We were told from our first lot of tests that we have a really slim chance of falling pregnant naturally too, it's so heartbreaking. Every time af comes, I feel bereaved. I'm sure people think I'm dramatic but unless you live it you could never know how it feels. I'm sorry I'm not more helpful or can't offer any advice, but I can tell you you're not alone and it is perfectly normal to feel the way you're feeling x

CraftyGirly90 · 09/05/2018 16:48

Jamahi just having someine to vent to that is going through the same thing is a big help. My friends try and understand but they all have kids that were conceived naturally (one or two of them by accident as well) so they can't really. I think I just wanted to know how I'm feeling is ok, I'm especially frustrated as af rocked up this morning with no warning so made my heart sink even more xx

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