So basically myself and my partner have been trying for over 2 years with no success, finally started to get tests and investigations.
Went back to doctors today to get results of my 21 day progesterone test and results from my ultrasound scan, also mentioned to my doctor that on Friday just gone I’d had a positive pregnancy test but now it’s coming up negative and due AF today but no sign.
So doctor goes on, scan fine, bloods we need to run again as haven’t got a definite answer and I want to check for a few more things, mentioned positive test and now negative, doctor proceeds to say “you know 1 in 3 women end up having a miscarriage it’s not that bad if you are” sorry but I could have punched her, after all of the months of hoping this might be my month and now getting a positive test to then get a negative and being told I’m probably having a miscarriage but that it’s fine ? I’m furious and seriously devastated, she basically told me she was rushing my appointment to get me out of the room, told me I need to ring back if I am actually getting another positive or if not ring back and book bloods for day 21 of my cycle if my period arrives.
Has anyone ever had an experience like this before ? Should I change doctors ? I’m absolutely gutted I thought this might have been a glimmer of hope but now not so much 😭😔