Saw a gyne today who wants to insert a coil in me to control pv bleeding. This after ten years of infertility, loads ivf, ivi, operations and shit just ten years of shit. Oh and a divorce as we couldn't make it. I thought I would just slide into menopause (40) and not have to deal with this stuff any more. I have a new partner but he has 3 kids and definitely doesn't want anymore. We haven't been using contraceptives as well I can't get pregnant but still every month a part of me is hopeful. To slam that door shut by inserting a coil really fucking hurts. No idea why I'm writing- never have before throughout those ten years. I just thought all the operations & shit was over.