I'll try and make as much sense out of this as possible, so here goes;
I'm about to start my first private cycle of IVF which, as I'm sure you're all aware, will cost thousands.
A lot of the consultants working there are both private and NHS doctors.
My concern is - while I don't doubt that these consultants will (hopefully) have our best interests at heart - that at the end of the day this clinic is a business; will they only allow me to proceed with a cycle if they truly believe there's a decent chance of pregnancy?
Would they take our money if they knew there wasn't a chance in hell it'll work? Is there any compliance/higher governing body regulating these places whereby they have to prove that they've only recommended IVF because they actually think it'll work?
I'd like to think that if our chances didn't look good they'd be honest enough to say 'sorry, the chances of this working are slim, don't waste your money' (or words to that effect).
I hope this doesn't come across as horribly cynical but I felt a lot more prepared following our first cycle (NHS) as I'd had a laparoscopy beforehand in preparation...I've had two miscarriages and an ERPC since then and just feel a bit of a mess 