@Sian868
Hi yes it's so very frustrating not really knowing where we stand/what if all means.
If 1% morphology meant that conception was highly unlikely etc then we'd know to go straight to the specialists.
But I'm starting to realise that the TTC game is not quite like that.
Plus having had 2 fairly instant conceptions, I'm reluctant to believe that it'll have to be an assisted 3rd conception.
Moreover, we cannot afford private treatment (obviously won't be eligible for anything much on the NHS).
We could go down the private route but would have to take out a big bank loan to do this.
But we're trying to get a mortgage at the moment so we're kind of screwed and can't really take on a big loan.
On the other hand, I'm 39 so last chance saloon and all that (in my head anyway). I will punch the next person who makes a comment about "not leaving it too late!"
They need to fuck off!
I was last pregnant aged 37 and half, we've been trying ever since my MMC, well 3 weeks after.
I have been humbled by the whole experience of the last 14 months and truly understand why some other couples & families have the age gaps that they do.
You never know what somebody else is going through. That's my huge learning point through all of this!
....and breathe!
Sorry for the rant 