That sounds a bit petulant perhaps, and I don't mean it to be. It's a genuine question.
Through the experience of infertility, it's surprised me who has 'come forward' if you like with support and who hasn't.
By support I think I'm pretty low maintenance and I just mean the odd text checking how you are. I understand that infertility for those who haven't experienced it is a heck of a hard subject for some and many people might retreat a bit, just because they don't know what to say / are worried about saying the wrong thing at wiring time etc perhaps. (I don't know - just trying to put myself in others' shoes.)
But if you knew your friend was going through it, just literally one text to say 'hope things going ok' or 'thinking of you' would be more than enough for me to know that people cared.
Some friends are brilliant at this, but others... They know you're going through this, but may send literally not one text to see how it's gone / whether you're ok. Does it mean they don't care? Does it mean we're not as good friends as I thought we were?
A genuine question as I'm just a bit surprised. Should I be facing up to the fact that perhaps some people just aren't that concerned about you?
On the more positive side, you get the opposite too - surprises by some people who say and do really thoughtful things and you didn't actually know they cared so much.
Does anyone know what I mean by this, and what are other people's experiences?
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