General fed up rant. 6th MC.

[Oooblimey]

Sat on sofa bleeding. TTC for almost 7 years. This is my 6th loss. At least this one is early (5+4) so not dragged out for weeks. Just can't be arsed with the constant upset yet still the need to try is overwhelming.
I bloody hate people you pee on a stick, get their BFP and it doesn't even have to enter their head that they will lose it, they just carry on with their lovely pregnancy, have a baby then a few moths later have a happy accident and get pregnant again. Those people should just off.
Just fed up.

Anyone else fancy a rant?!!

So sorry op. There's absolutely no words that can help at all. Please have a massive bunch of

Have you had any investigations into why so many mcs? It sounds absolutely hellish.

Totally with you regarding the pee on a stick, got my bfp after two months people. They have no idea how lucky they are

Cheers IsThismummy. Yes had all the tests. Several factors. I have endometriosis and also have only one Fallopian tube (due to a ruptured ectopic in 2013). Husband is carrier of a genetic chromosome translocation. Mix them all up and TTC is bloody hard!! Have had ICSI twice. Obviously MC both times. This was my first "natural" conception since the ectopic in 2013.
I even get frustrated reading infertility threads which is awful as I've been there! But when I read people distraught after TTC for 12 months I really have to stop myself commenting! I need to pull myself together. Maybe start a thread for people with (very!) long term infertility! X

Sorry to hear this. It totally sucks and there's nothing anyone can say to make it any better. You don't need to "pull yourself together" as you put it, what you're going through is really hard and it's normal to grieve for what might have been.

Come and join us on the multiple failures thread-we're all jaded and cynical there.

I know exactly what you mean about your frustration re fertility threads. I'm not in anyway trying to suggest this is a who is worst off competition, as it's horrible for everyone going through it. But I once said to my husband that some of the people are the infertility equivalent of kicking a football around in the park, where as we are at the FA cup final.

Sorry to hear this OP if you've had the tests etc, miscarriages and 7 years..would you consider using a sperm donor? Women with endo do successfully carry, however if they embryo is chromosally normal, it will usually miscarry

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@Oooblimey I'm not at all surprised at how you're feeling. Sounds like you've been dealt a very unlucky hand. Where are you based? I have an appointment at this place on the 6th July... heard great things about the Consultant and very encouraged by the success stories page. He's also been on TV sharing stories of helping woman who have had something like up to 16 miscarriages. Sharing his page in case it's of interest.

www.miscarriageclinic.co.uk/profile/dr-hassan-shehata