I am all in a tizz and would appreciate advice from ladies who have cycled with different clinics.
I am about to embark on my first IVF. I am 40 and been told IVF would be best after one mc and 6 months of ttc would no luck. However my DH insists we should go to a local clinic (less hassle and so he can support me and attend all appointments). But the problem is my local clinic has a poor success rate for my age group (12%). I worked out 3 cycles would only give me slightly better odds than 5 cycles of trying naturally (5%) as both would take the same amount of time.
I don't think I could afford ARGC but am looking at clinics elsewhere where the success is more 17% and 3 cycles would lead to a much higher cumulative success rate.
However I have received advice that your first cycle is always a trial (seeing how you respond ) so you can try first in a local clinic and then if unsuccessful move on.
Also some ppl have suggested that ARGC aside, most clinics have very similar protocols and similar success rates which vary according to individual differences.
I am confused and flitting from wanting to go to London to the best clinics I can find, to thinking that trying naturally would be less stressful!
Any advice would be appreciated!