Hi,
Wondered any if anyone had any advice or thoughts. We've been trying to conceive since Sep 15, had an early mc first month so thought it would then happen quickly for us but didn't get another positive until jan this year, which then ended at 11 weeks. We're now having all the recurrent mc tests done but we've also been talking about going down the ivf route. We saw the consultant just before we got a positive at start of the year and she said it depends how desperate you are so we agreed to carry on for a while but now we are desperate in the sense it's making us very unhappy and we're struggling with it. Obviously we need results of tests first as if there is something wrong, we'd need to treat that but thinking if we did ivf, any problem could be treated alongside having the fertility help and it would be in a much more controlled environment so less chance for something to go wrong and would help speed up the process. I know a lot of people are of the mindset you have to be patient but at what cost and I don't really want to be a martyr and wait till the point where I'm absolutely miserable and my marriage is suffering. Also, every person I know who has has ivf has had a second child naturally so obviously it would've happened for them I guess if they'd carried on but how long do you carry on for? Sorry for rambling, just wanted some thoughts really or anyone whose been in a similar position. Thanks