I have no idea where to put this, as it is a query that straddles several different topics!
Essentially, we are undergoing IVF/ICSI treatment at the moment. I am currently stimming and, if everything is textbook (!) it will be egg collection a week today.
We have just been told that DH has a 'chromosome abnormality' on chromosome 5. Apparently the pairs don't separate properly so it either produces a chromosome with a missing part, or an extra part. The letter from the geneticist says 'low risk', but our IVF consultant has no idea what the parameters for 'low' are, nor how this issue may present. We are not going to be able to see a geneticist for 6 weeks due to referral time, so obviously I was hoping to be pregnant by then!
How do I decide how to proceed? On one hand I feel that perhaps we should freeze any embryos and wait until we've seen the geneticist and are armed with more facts. On the other hand, I feel that that would damage the chances of the embryo implanting at all, compared to fresh, and what are the risks in reality? I could have CVS / amnio if I were to actually get pregnant and then take a decision from there...?
Does anybody have any experience / advice about this? Thanks.