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Pg announcements - why is it so unfair?

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Chattycat78 · 18/10/2015 16:21

Just that really. I just need a rant. Sitting on the floor at my mother in laws house. I have just found out that my SIL and her new husband are pg after 1 month of trying. They already have 4 kids between them. I'm now having to hold it together and smile while I feel just awful inside. I don't resent them, I resent the situation. I do have a child and I'm very grateful, but it was a long journey involving ivf and mc to get there. I would love a sibling for him but I expect it to be a long and hard journey and it may not even be possible. Why is this how it is? I also feel awful that I feel this way about it, but I can't help it. Anyone else?

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GreenWalls · 18/10/2015 20:02

Oh I feel your pain. My DSIL had 2 while we were trying and so did best friend.

Do what you need to do to get through. Your turn will come. It took us 7 years to carry our first DC to term - but it was worth all of it.

Big, un MN hugs to you xx

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