Last cycle first we heard about it was minutes after collection. Felt very angry that we were asked to make a big financial decision at such an emotional time. After collecting 9 eggs we were willing to go ahead but it turned out only 2 could be injected (ICSI). Then had day 2 transfer. Afterwards we felt we'd been conned a bit and that we wouldn't use it this time. Then this morning we have four out of 5 injected eggs which have fertilised and do we want to use the embryoscope as we might be able to get them to blastocyst.
DH is against it and thinks it's emotional blackmail and that if its that successful it should just be part of the package and we pay more at the start (which I agree) but that there's no point as research is so conflicting.
However I'm totally blackmailed and feel we can't not use it. So we are but if it doesn't work out its another grand to save for the next cycle.
Feeling confused and rooting for our embies ... 