Dear all, long sad story so please bear with me.
Had a first dd in 2011, when I was 30. Fell pregnant straight away, experienced no bleeding and had an absolutely straight forward vaginal delivery at term. Prior to this I had a termination in 2001 as wasn't in position to bring up child. I was living in India at this point and found out I was pregnant through missed period. Had termination in UK at six weeks by d and c. Had no bleeding with pregnancy either.
Fast forward to 2013 and I fell pregnant again. Experienced light implantation bleeding but was beyond thrilled to be pregnant again. Unfortunately a scan at 16 weeks revealed she had a congenital abnormality- severe congenital diaphragmatic hernia- and we made the heartbreaking decision to terminate, again through d and c. We had been trying for three months, and presumed we would be fortunate enough to concieve again. We were wrong, as it took 7 months. With this pregnancy I bled heavily from day one, was diagnosed with all kinds of placental problems and a massive subchorionic hematoma. My waters broke at 16 weeks, I developed an infection and again had to have a d and c. Began trying again, got pregnant in February 2015 and again bleeding before bfp and then a miscarriage at 6 weeks.
I was under the care of UCH and am being tested for clotting disorders but won't get to see heamatalogy clinic until July. Hoping to speed things up I saw Dr at the Portland- can you believe she was googling in front of me?! (From my phone at one point!) She had no idea what to test me for in terms of clotting disorders and also said 'I was v fertile', I'm obvs not as that was in February and still no pregnancy.
What do I do now? I can't stop thinking about another child, it's like an obsession, and I know it's unhealthy. I feel like I need to do something, but who do I go to see and where? Have tests at uch late July but am pretty sure it's not a clotting disorder and also imagine it will take months and months and months to get results, given I've been waiting for the appt since November! I have regular accu, take b and d vits and suspect I may have short Luteal phase. What now?! Found fertility gynaecology academy on line- are they worth a punt? Any recommendations? It's not really a repeat mc situation but instead repeated loss. Have been told over and over they're unconnected and I'm unlucky but no nearer to a child now than I was when we first had loss. Help.