Thanks for your thoughts Attila. I will check out that website.
RE the day 2 - 5 blood test, you may well be right however I've already started taking the tablets which will 'force' a bleed so I may as well continue - if for any reason they need to be repeated in the future I may bare it in mind though.
Metformin was not mentioned - is it an alternative to Clomid? I will research - does it have the same effect? If so I will discuss when I go back and I will also be sure to ask about monitoring/affect on hormone levels. I had already been warned that most trusts don't start fertility treatment until your BMI reaches a certain level (usually 28 I was told). I believe this is because higher BMIs can be linked to problematic pregnancies. In any case I'm happy to lower my BMI to 30 before commencing treatment, it is quite achievable for me and I would like to be smaller before getting pregnant again - I was much smaller in my first pregnancy and have a very easy time of it - this time I will also have a toddler to run after :)
I don't think there is any chance of being seen once a month - that's just the way it is in my hospital. I guess I could complain but in my case I'm sure it will be fine, it will take me a couple of months to loose the weight and then I'm hoping to get a cancellation appointment. I'd rather not wait until September but will if I have to - I'm not terribly desperate.
RE DH sperm analysis. I don't really understand this. We already have a child, conceived naturally. The only time he's had a SA done it was good. Yes we are having difficulty conceiving but I'm not having periods and therefore not ovulating! Surely it would make more sense to assume that's the (main) problem and get on with solving it? Yes if after a few months on the Clomid (or whatever) we are still having problems then it would make sense to check him out - I know that sperm can and does change dramatically from 'time' to 'time' and its possible that both our son and the SA were just flukes but realistically it seems unlikely and a waste of time and resources. Realistically I'm not releasing eggs - investigating his sperm isn't going to help. Sorry for the rant, he will of course get the SA done so I can take it to the next appointment (which I'm really not planning on asking him to come to - again I'm just not ovulating, nothing he can do will help). PS as I understand it he will get a form from the GP, take the form to the hospital or wherever and provide his sample there and then - that's what happened with his last SA anyway...
Anyway I appreciate your advice and you may well be completely right - I'm allowing myself to keep my head in the sand a little longer, I sincerely hope that it'll only take a couple of month of Clomid to get me ovulating and I'll fall easily. I'm also somewhat hoping that before long my continued weight loss will get me ovulating again (I had no/few PCOS signs prior to gaining weight over the last couple of years) and all this will become mute.