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First fertility investigation appointment

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tutsyflower · 23/09/2014 19:03

Hi
I have been trying for a baby from after my wedding last year and now have my first appointment next month.
I feel silly but I am thinking now, have I done things right are we doing anything wrong and is that why we haven't got pregnant yet?
I know it will be great if it turns out all is fine but I cant help feel it will leave me confused about why nothing is happening yet.
I just cant help feeling worried encase they say there is nothing wrong is that daft. Not that I want something to be wrong although I feel there is, I just what answers. Is it normal to think like this?

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stqueen · 23/09/2014 21:42

I can't help really but just to say hi, I'm with you as I know exactly how you're feeling as I'm at a similar stage myself.

I have just had day 3 bloods, having day 21 bloods later in cycle & DH is due to have a SA around the same time. Part of me is really fretting & worried about what will be found (I really don't want to admit there may be a problem, but clearly something is awry) but another part of me is looking forward to actually finding out what is wrong if anything so we can get the relevant help and on the road to fix it. Although sadly it may not be that easy!

You have absolutely done the right thing by booking an appointment, ask as many silly questions as you need to & don't let anyone make you feel silly for asking!

I'm keeping my fingers crossed!

If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?

x

tutsyflower · 24/09/2014 18:59

Hi stqueen
im 26 now I was 25 when I started ttc and my husband is 29 we don't smoke or take any drugs and we drink maybe once a month if that. Im slightly over weight at the minute :( other than that we are both healthy. x

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