Just wondering if anyone might have been in the same position as us and have any advice?
I'm 40, DH is 31, we sadly had a silent miscarriage last year after only TTC for one month. Since then, a year ago, no luck at all, but have had 2 chemical pregnancies.
As up until this point I haven't massively been in favour of going the drugs route, as was really just desperately hoping we might be able to get pregnant again on our own, knowing we'd already managed it once quite easily, the only thing I've had up until now is some acupuncture and Chinese medicine.
We've met with a few different fertility people and had all the tests done and everything is basically fine, considering my age - I am ovulating regularly, average AMH, good FSH etc - but all of them seem to be pointing us straight down the IVF route with no thought for anything else. I do understand this will mainly be because of my age but am just struggling to get my head around it, having not tried anything else whatsoever.
I guess it's just that difficult thing where no-one can tell you how close or not you might actually be to making it happen i.e.
are we miles off and therefore the quickest (and hopefully most successful) route is IVF, or do we just need something, like Clomid, to tip the balance in our favour?
I'm trying to be realistic at this point, but at the same time, just don't want to be spending alot of money (which we don't have) and physical/emotional upheaval of IVF if we might not need to?
Be really grateful for any thoughts on this ladies
Thanks so much
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