Hi there
Firstly, please accept my apologies for such a long post!
I'm having a real dilemma with this and I would really love some advice as I'm going around in circles!
I have a really good friend who I believe is unable to conceive. She has PCOS and I know her and her husband haven't been using contraception for several years. I don't think they're actively trying (he works away a lot) but they would dearly love children.
I haven't seen her for a couple of months but she has invited my partner and I for dinner next Saturday. She doesn't know that I'm pregnant as the last time I saw her was before I found out. Dinners at hers are typically boozy affairs and she has already sent me an email about having a nice glass (or two!) of wine. I had hinted in the past that my partner and I were ttc, so if I refuse a drink (most unlike me usually!) she will immediately know why. The last thing I want to do is make her upset or feel like she has to put a front on in front of our partners. She's a very bubbly, positive character and I think that even if she was sad she wouldn't show it - I hate the thought of that!
I was trying to arrange to meet her before the dinner so I could have a quick word in advance, just the two of us, but she is always extremely busy (in work, but also in the evenings) and we will have no chance to meet.
Any advice would be dearly appreciated. Thank you xxx
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ladylashes · 27/09/2013 12:51
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