Hi QuiteRural,
I have PCOS and have had the surgery you mention. Its proper name is laparoscopic ovarian diathermy. Basically the surgeon punctures the cystic follicles associated with PCOS with an electrical laser or needle. This gives the ovaries a better chance of ovulating spontaneously as the follicles have been dealt with.
I became pg two months post op as a direct result of this surgery but I also know of where it has not worked. You need to have a in depth conversation with the cons who intends to carry out this surgery. I would ask him outright how much experience he has had in this type of surgery because it is a steep learning curve. Also ask about success rates.
Diathermy is NOT a cure for PCOS as the cystic follicles associated with this condition do return eventually. It can be successful for some PCOSers so if this surgery has been offered to you I would not decline it.
IVF is usually only offered to PCOS patients only after all other treatment options have been tried. PCOS patients need to be very, very careful indeed and closely monitored if undergoing IVF because of the higher risk of ovarian hyperstimulation (the multiple cystic follicles associated with PCOS are to blame here).
Was never given clomid due to unsuitability to take it. Cons said it would not have helped me.
Normally clomid is used for a max of six months after which other treatments options are tried. I have read elsewhere that if clomid is not successful after three months then it is worth trying other things. Clomid should be used with a degree of caution in PCOS patients anyway as clomid can increase hormone levels markedly (particularly that of LH which many PCOSers have an excess of to begin with) so it is not always suitable for all PCOSers to take. Its main and only job is to make the ovaries work harder.
Would refrain from temp charting as this is really of no benefit at all if PCOS is present. Women often end up with a chart looking like the Rocky Mountains as a result which muddies the waters even more and causes more stress. Also if you had been properly monitored whilst on clomid this would have made the temp charting also unnecessary.
You may find Verity's website helpful www.verity-pcos.org.uk
Any other questions just ask.
With best wishes
A