Well,I thought the comment PD made about that was at odds with what I see,and what my dh's colleagues see. This is the poorest part of Turkey so yes,women are out toiling (ie you see them in the fields,unlike in town where 95% of shops,restaurants and businesses are run by men).
However,they do the hard unglamorous bit,they are not involved in planning,trading,decision making of any sort. This has my dh's colleagues in dspair-of course theyn understand the context and reasons,but they also know that if things are to change for the better (for everyone here) women have to be involved.
Dh, (by no means a 'new man'!) comes home despairing after a visit to yet another region where un/underemployed men while away the hours smoking,drinking tea and watching tv,while the women kill themselves doing all the work and raising families. The culture of long term unemployment and subsequent mental ill health has really struck here. At the height of the troubles,village men were basically either with the PKK or paid a retainer to act as government 'guards' in the village. These payments continue today. The people who wanted nothing to do with either side,fled to large towns (like the one wse live in) so were/are basically refugees.
Of course,this situation is not one that exists exclusively in Islamic countries! !8 years in the Pacific with my family showed me that it happens everywhere. Oppressed,marginalised men are bolstered by the fact that oppressed,marginalised women are even lower down in the pecking order.
Psychologically,we seem to feel the need that there is always someone worse off than us. (Fascinating and extremely poignant discussion to this effect on the special needs thread recently.)
Generally though,women are to busy looking after their children to worry about who is next down the list.
I find that of all organised faith costructs,Buddhism appeals most to me too.
Enjoy the sun-I'm doing the opposite,staying in until it gets a little cooler. Probably 36C today. I hate the heat!!