diddl Thu 29-Apr-10 09:14:26
"I was taken aback by my dd's views. She is very quiet and reserved and would never join in with any bullying/baiting.
However, she just couldn't see the teacher's point of view at all. To her he is an an authority figure who should be able to keep control."
And that´s part of the "problem" I think-taking no responsibility and always blaming others."
I think there is another side to it too. Many children are still brought up to think that teachers are authority figures who are always right= with no ordinary human fallibilities. (remember the shocked posts we get on MN when someone fails to uphold the teacher's authority in front of their child)
To my dd, certainly, questioning any decision the teacher made (even if clearly illegal and dangerous) was unthinkable; it was simply not allowed at her school. Do you think someone like her would have a lot of understanding if one day a teacher showed himself full of human fallibility?
To her, this would seem illogical: either you accept that teachers are not always right or they had better always be right!
(not that my dd would bait anyone, she is too well brought up).
My Dad started teaching in what was then a very authoritative system (the teacher he did his teacher training term with regularly reduced A-level students to tears), which then changed into a system where students were on fairly relaxed terms with the teacher. What struck him was how much kinder the pupils were to the teacher after the change. In the old cane and humiliation days, according to him, pupils were also trying to put one over on him, to see if the teacher could really live up to the authority ideal and were like baying hounds at the first sign of weakness. The school in Goodbye Mr Chips is ruled by the cane- doesn't stop them from breaking any teacher who shows weakness.
Now it may well be that the pendulum has swung over too far in some places and that we need more discipline in the schools. But not too much discipline. Because in a system where Sir is always right, there can be no mercy for a Sir who is not right. And in a system with no discipline there will be no mercy for anyone. Balance.