"There is little point in having good quality ante natal care and highly qualifed health professionals looking after you if you do not follow advice".
Whose advice?
The advice of my community midwife, who had vastly less experience of home births than my IM, and who had spent no more than 10 minutes assessing my obstetric history, or my IM, who had delivered babies at home weekly throughout her entire career, who had spent many hours going through my obstetric history with me, and who had discussed my case at length with an NHS consultant midwife?
Or my obstetrician, who had never attended a home birth during his career?
Homebirth rates in the UK vary from under 1% in some areas, to over 15% in others. That's because in some areas midwives are lacking in confidence to deliver babies outside of a hospital environment. As a home birth support volunteer I have known many women who have come up against a huge amount of negativity and shroud waving from health professionals towards even a low risk home birth. Those who are strong enough to fight their corner almost always find that talking to an experienced, confident midwife slightly higher up the NHS 'food chain' brings a marked change in attitude. In my own particular case I didn't even try to get further support from the community team because I wanted to be cared for by someone who I knew and trusted - which wasn't possible in my area as they don't do case-loading.
"You might as well the poor women in Afganistan who has no ante natal care".
That's a silly and thoughtless comment. In my own case I never said I disregarded all the advice and information I was given. Only the advice on place of birth. And I didn't actually disregard it. I just chose not to follow it. I still took the information into account.
" but that of the baby as well. Life is not fair and the most important thing is a healhy mother and baby"
Sorry - but that's INCREDIBLY insulting. Do you think I put my own feelings above the welfare of my baby? I didn't have my baby at home because I thought it would be 'nicer' for me, but because I thought it would result in a safer and healthier birth for both my baby and myself.
"I know women who have sucessfully given birth to large babies at home, but they have been large women themselves."
Ah well - I'm 5ft 6inches, am a size 10/12, and yet successfully delivered a
11lb baby at home, with no damage to myself or my baby. I know half a dozen women like myself who have given birth at home to babies over 10lbs with no problems at all.
"Problems come when the baby is out of proportion to the mother. Good ante natal care will pick up that sort of situation"
Sometimes. But sometimes the opposite can happen. One of my friends was advised by an obstetrician to have a section for her first baby as her baby was thought to be measuring very large for dates by scan.
She had a section. Baby was 9lbs 3oz. Mum is a strapping, healthy girl in her 20's.
If she goes on to experience scar rupture during her next labour, or is one of the 50% of women who don't have another baby following c-section, or -good forbid- loses the next baby (because risk of unexplained stillbirth in pregnancies following c-section appears to be higher), or ends up with a hysterectomy following another c-section, who or what will be to blame?
Risk is a complex issue and NHS protocols to reduce the chance of a poor outcome are useful at a population level - but they won't provide the optimal model of care for every individual mother.