Well I feel sorry for your friend, but DH was made redundant in May and hasn't iety overall,had any of that- even with me as a carer. The system rewards him for teh efforts he is making instead- WTC means he ahs been able to set up for himself andstart from scratch as well as retrain professionally- surely a good thing for society overall as he comes from a collapsing industry?
My sister is very well off, I see how hard she slogs and commend her, but theres no guarantees that poorer people arent trying just as hard to get on thier feet either even if it means being poor for a bit, if we ahd a choice I'dnot need to be a carer, Dh wouldn't have ben amde redundant- given thatc arers works out as 17p an hour when you have two disabled children I reckon I know a bit about slave labour!
Anyhow- my point was that we weren't getting at rich people but at attempts to decry the poor; its possible to see both workldviews, and indeed to have been in both camps
And really- PMSL at rhe idea we ahven't been touched! In the last three years we have clocked up:
2 autism dx's
1 redundancy from good job with no prospect of regaing work in field
1 severe illness in an adult (now resolved) causing long term time off
1 otehr child being screened for SEN
life of riley, me. bring out the champers!