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Mother killed herself + disabled daughter after bullying campaign

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SomeGuy · 17/09/2009 21:37

See

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1214180/Mother-killed-disabled-daughter-car-suffered-years-taunting -abuse-gang.html

"A mother who killed herself and her disabled daughter in a blazing car had faced constant abuse and threats from a gang of youths, an inquest heard today.

Fiona Pilkington made dozens of calls to the
police and council officials to complain about the way her daughter, Francecca Hardwick, was being picked on.

The inquest heard that Ms Pilkington, a full-time carer to her daughter, had apparently carried out the act of murder-suicide because of the abuse.

Ms Pilkington's severely dyslexic son, Anthony Hardwick, was also victimised by the gang.

Giving evidence, Pam Cassell, 72, said her daughter Ms Pilkington had taped up her letter box the week before she died because she feared fireworks would be put through it.
Mrs Cassell said: 'It was Halloween and firework night coming up and Fiona was dreading them because she knew that the children would start throwing things at the house and start putting fireworks through the letter box.

'They would start on Fiona and throw things and then go round the back and do things in the garden. It was always the same group of youths.

'Sometimes they would go round the side of the house and urinate.

'They used to ring on the doorbell and say that she had been hitting her kids. They were petty things like that.

The inquest heard that the abuse started when the family moved into the house in Barwell, Leicestershire, but it escalated after Anthony fell out with a friend who lived on the street.

The unnamed boy was at the centre of this gang, even though Anthony had attended sleepovers at his house as a young child, the inquest heard.

He would taunt them at the front of their house by shouting: 'We can do anything we like and you can't do anything about it.'
Mrs Cassell added: 'Fiona couldn't defend herself. She was very shy and she didn't want any trouble so she tended to ignore them. She was very vulnerable.'

Asked by coroner Olivia Davison why the family were picked on, Mrs Cassell said: 'Fiona existed and they didn't like it. I don't think she was their sort and there was something that she did that they took exception to.'

During one incident Fiona Pilkington's son Anthony was put at knifepoint into a shed, the inquest heard. But despite dozens of calls to the police and Hinckley and Bosworth Borough Council, little was done to help the family.

Mrs Cassell said that at one point the council imposed a 300-yard exclusion zone for the youths around the family's house but that had failed to enforce it.

She said her daughter contacted the council four or five times and phoned police at least 10 times a year demanding help.
She said the school holidays and the weekends were the worst and her daughter constantly had the curtains in her front room closed.

Ms Pilkington's mother added that the family had never taken a holiday together and her daughter did not receive respite care because she did not know how to get it.

Asked by the coroner why her daughter took Frankie on the fateful trip, Mrs Cassell said: 'She didn't think anybody would be able to cope with Frankie, she was getting a lot stronger.'

The court also heard that when the family made friends with the paperboy, the gang started abusing him so he stopped being friendly.

The inquest heard that families in Barden Road were still being abused, despite the deaths of Ms Pilkington and her daughter.

Ms Pilkington's mother said she believed her daughter allowed Frankie to take her pet rabbit with her on their journey to the lay-by, in the hope it would stop her from trying to escape the burning car. But no remains were found and it is believed the animal escaped before the car exploded."

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edam · 29/09/2009 13:28

btw, the police lawyer tried to have the inquest held in secret so no-one would know about the reasons why this lady took her life and how the authorities failed her. So I'd take any assurances that the local fuzz have changed their ways with a hefty dose of salt. If there is genuine remorse at the very top, why did they try to hide this case from the public?

Stayingsunnygirl · 29/09/2009 13:32

Victim - contact Jack Straw - he's just been on Radio4 saying how seriously he'd take a case like yours when questioned about a similar case. He's pledged to phone the lady concerned himself, so should do nothing less for you, imo.

edam · 29/09/2009 13:43

good idea sunny, I heard the same clip. Victim, it was the one O'clock news on Radio 4, you can listen to it again via BBC iPlayer. Might be worth contacting the programme, too.

2shoes · 29/09/2009 17:21

edam you are so right, even though when I rang the police to report an icident as a hate crime, and the lovely PC(He was nice) flagged it......NOTHING they are more interested in protecting gordon brown and his mbo.

sickofsocalledexperts · 29/09/2009 17:39

Victim - why not attach an article about Fiona Pilkington to a letter to your local MP and write what you wrote in this post. Then say you are thinking of sending it also to the Sun. You could copy today's front page with your letter and say this is also your story.Mps fear the press, as do local councils. You might just get some action through a threat of the press at this time.

I am very pleased that the Sun newspaper has today put a pic of the main bully of Fiona and family on its front page, plus the parents of the little shit are pictured inside. This is one occasion where I think naming and shaming on such a public scale will finally force this feral family to be moved, rather than innocent victims to die or have to move out of their own homes.

When do we take back control of our streets from the scum minority who are making life a misery for decent citizens.

My suggestion: parents whose kids get an ASBO or complaints like this have all benefits stopped for 3 months. Hit them the only place where it hurts their callous little hearts!

Stayingsunnygirl · 29/09/2009 19:49

I agree utterly with the naming and shaming of the children and the parents in this case, and with the suggestion that benefits be stopped if parents aren't doing anything to stop their children's bad behaviour.

victim · 07/10/2009 11:36

took everyones advise went to newspapers and the tv news teams still waiting for someone to take any notice, went to councillors they are working to help me, they seem to bethe only ones that want to help me. Obviously you have to be killed for anything to be done! Lovely world we live in that you have to fight a lonely fight to stay alive.

hmary · 24/10/2009 17:39

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LauraIngallsWilder · 24/10/2009 17:45

hmary - honest of you for being upfront about being a journalist
As this thread is old victim may well not see your message try clicking on the envelope beside her name and sending her a message directly (although given her circumstances she may have set her profile up so that she cant be sent messages)

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