Utility companies don't get away with sending intimidating letters such as these, so why should TVL get away with it?
2 years ago, I agreed to pay my TV licence in installments, which I proceeded to do. TVL kept sending the amounts back to me in cheque form, none of which I cashed, despite my numerous calls to them.
One Sunday evening there was a knock on my door as I was in the bath, so DP answered, then came up to tell me that whoever it was wouldn't give his identity or go away until he spoke to me (he doesn't live with me). Having been caught on the hop, I got out of the bath, thinking it was some kind of family emergency.
I kept the chain on the door and asked what he wanted. It was someone from the TVL, who started shouting and swearing at me from outside, claiming he had the police with him and a warrant for my arrest for not paying my TV licence
By this time I had become I became quite hysterical, screaming and crying. I've never, ever been in trouble with the police in my life. DP - ever the diplomat - did tell him to keep a civil tongue in his head but also told me I should open the door, probably thinking that it would be better than having it barged down!
I did open the door to find no police there, so I told him I'd call TVL the next day to sort it out, but he wasn't having any of it. I went to shut the door but he put his foot in the way. DP had to intervene tell him that I would only co-operate if he took his foot out.
DS, 6 at the time, saw all this.
Having taken my details, the man said I'd be receiving a summons, which I never did. I paid my TV licence with a lump sum I did have but which was already accounted for towards basic living expenses, hence my paying in installments in the first place.
The next day, walking DS to school, I had my first panic attack, constantly thinking there was someone following me and have had them consistently since. I haven't been able to answer my door to cold callers ever since it happened and even when I'm expecting a relative or friend, I have to double check who's at the door.
The stupid thing was that he never even bothered to check whether I had a TV.
Also, the sad thing is that, while I never thought the BBC was perfect, I was actually far greater a fan before all this happened.