ScaryTeacher, you mean the Mujahideen that were armed and financed by the US? The same Mujahideen that were left to try to rebuild a shattered country on their own as the US had unhelpfully buggered off minutes after the last Russian soldier walked off Afghan soil?
Groups such as the Taleban have such a downer on the West not because we're perceived as liberal, Christian ne'er-do-wells who need to be shown a better way of life. It's because millions of people in that region are terminally pissed off with the West in general and the US in particular for stomping in, supporting puppet regimes, playing favourites, directly or indirectly killing tens of thousands of civilians, and generally causing merry hell left, right and center.
The UK is now such a target for terrorism from these regions not because they've taken a dislike to our underground system, but because we stand shoulder to shoulder with a country that has caused huge amounts of trouble in the middle east. Even our own anti-terrorism experts recognised that the UK being associated with the invasion of Iraq would increase the likelihood of a terrorist attack on UK soil rather than decrease it.
The way that the Teleban treats its citizens, and women in particular, is not hugely different than the way Saudi Arabia has done for ages. The big difference, of course, is that Saudi has oil and so they're our friends.
I have a huge amount of respect for our armed forces and the people on the front line doing a downright crappy job in miserable conditions with shoddy kit and antique equipment. They are brave beyond my capacity to explain. I just wish their commanding officers showed a fraction as much courage in publically questioning what the hell it is we're trying to achieve there and why we're going about it so badly.
We get upset, and rightfully so, for every one of our English dead and each one is named and mourned. So many civilians were killed in Iraq and Afghanistan that no-one's been able to produce accurate numbers. Whichever side of the fence you stand, that can't be right.