new to posting on any discussion board.. so far Cory is the only person who has made a point I can really connect with - I can totally see what you mean, and I have had this discussion with friends (parents also of disabled children). I guess this is turning into a pro life or not arguement. For me the main issue was about GENETIC disorders, and more crucially disease.
Cory - I am sorry your daughter has to suffer, does it make any sense if I say to you that my point is that if in the future we could screen for illnesses or disabilties she could still have been born but without the pain.
I suppose my view seems terribly unsentimental to say the least, vicious and repulsive at worst, but I think those who see it this way are looking at themselves or children and taking it that I am saying you / they should never have been born - WRONG, but it is with this in mind that you are responding to my view.
I don't think that a person is any less of an individual for an illness or disability, I would just wish that they didn't have that illness, or had been spared having the disability.
I don't think I am going to make anyone understand me as this is too inflammatory a topic and I have already been hung drawn and quartered, so all I can say now is I am truly sorry if I have offended people, that was not the intention and I am neither naive, Hitler nor a troll.