rosie, you are still so so naive, regardless of how enlightened you claim to be with regards to you experiences. I too worked with ASD children when I was training as a nursery nurse. I also have two children with immune deficiancies. DS2 was concieved with a very high chance of being born with a medical problem, which he does in fact have. But at no point would I choose another child over any I have.....and you know what, even knowing what I now know and live with, if I was given the choice of gene reduction I still would not take it. what if, thru taking that gene away, I actually inherantly change my child into someone else completely, and one who now has another gene which, without the first gene, now becomes stronger and is more 'dangerous' thereby giving a worse illness/disability??
It actually scares the crap out of me to think that we can now 'play god' to such a degree that people like you now think it is a PREFERABLE thing, and one that we should all aspire too. Adolf Hitler thought that he had a grand idea and changed peoples views so much that look what happened...........they drive to eradicate an entire race!
now, I know that you would be horrified to think that you are being compared to him, but sorry............it is thoughts like yours that actually lead to thoughts like his.....scary isn;t it?!
now, this comment in particular I am going to pick on.....!
""Re the deaf and blind part of my message, can any of you honestly say you would choose that for your child? No matter how clever, erudite, amusing or happy a deaf or blind person I meet may be, I am going to put that down to who they are, not whether they are deaf or blind.""
I have no idea on statistics so may in fact be about to speak out of my arse, but I am sure that many of the deaf and blind among us were not actually concieved deaf or blind.........that in fact the deafness and blindness actually could be from an infection during pregnancy or from birth trauma......even from being born slightly prem and needing oxygen at birth. that is one well known cause of blindness......to strong a concentration of O2 when being ventilated. What then?? do you just kill off those babies as they are not 'good enough' anymore???